How many times would u let your wife cheat on you before you divorced her?

Asked By: Teddy Bear
Category: Cheating, Cheating Spouses, Divorce, Marriage, Relationship
Tags: cheating spouse, Cheating spouses, divorce, marriage, Sucker

After 15 years and 3 kids…. Why did I do this to myself or allow her to do this to me? I feel so stupid….

jeff_suzuki
Posted 8 months ago

Is there reciprocity?

seamstress
Posted 8 months ago

once

Tim
Posted 8 months ago

0, i would not tolerate my wife doing that. ever. if you are, you need to divorce her.period.

Backhoe
Posted 8 months ago

♫ Mad Luv ♫ aka ~Pril~
Posted 8 months ago

i will answer for me and my husband.
if you cheat it’s over. period!
why.. i know that one couldn’t rebuild trust from that. in my life!

get'gon
Posted 8 months ago

depending on how far it went
i could find the heart to forgive seeing how i’ve spent over a decade with him and birthed him 4 kids
it’s not a simple to just say zero tolerance for that cause many many ppl make it thru unfaithful spouses and end up happy again if not happier

the line for me is if he slept with someone else.. that’s it
i couldn’t seep with him knowing he’d stuck his shovel in another hole

OLD MAN OF KNOWLEDGE
Posted 8 months ago

She has no respect for you are your children. Does she love her children? Does she love you? Maybe if you sent her on her way she might see her problems and come back willing to be faithful. If not maybe it would be for the better.

Sweet C
Posted 8 months ago

1 is too many… i was dumb enought to believe it would not happen again. As sad and as painful it feels… The saying is true, once a cheater always a cheater… After 10 yrs and 3 kids, 3 infedelities, i got a divorce from my him.. I know you want things to work out and want to believe that she loves you but if she truelly did she would have respected and be faithful you to… Good luck

carla32724
Posted 8 months ago

depending on how many times she cheated, she might need help. it could be an addition. when you married her you made a life long commitment and it’s worth fighting for. people can change if she wants to. i wouldn’t give up 15 yrs and 3 kids. your kids will be in the middle of a divorce which isn’t good for kids. try and talk to her and tell her you want to make it work but she has to get help to quit cheating on you. this is such a hard subject because you are asking someone else to give you advice about what to do with your life. you need to do some soul searching and figure out if you want to save the marriage and then see if she does. you you both want to work on your marriage than it will be worth working on it. i wish you well.

stephanie_6234
Posted 8 months ago

once….you get one chance and I will call it a mistake, after that you get the boot!

DM
Posted 8 months ago

“Let” her? If you let her, it’s called an open marriage.

If you mean how many times to you let yourself be taken advantage of, that number is yours to decide.

HDRIDER
Posted 8 months ago

I’d get rid of her after the first time!

tinKERBELL29
Posted 8 months ago

if it even happed 1 time, it would be the last time with being with me… after 15 yrs & 5 kids my husband did the same. however, his words to his family was, now maybe she’ll treat me like i want to be treated (refering to me, his distorted thinking was that i would learn a lesson & beg his sorry ass back) the only one who can decide how much you can take & put up with is you…

blackpearl
Posted 8 months ago

Everybody has a level of tolerance but truthfully I guess it all depends on how much pain and agony your willing to put up with. Once should be enough to make it clear they don’t respect or truly LOVE you.

Nice Guy Wants to Rule the World!
Posted 8 months ago

She has never cheated on me but I cheated on her once. It was an 8 month affair and she didn’t leave.

Wendy
Posted 8 months ago

Let her? Never…If it happened, ONCE!

AJames
Posted 8 months ago

Depends on how many times she has to cheat on you in order for you to rebuild her trust again.
0 man, once she does it, that’s it.

myant
Posted 8 months ago

my concern would be the children. also is she remorseful and repentant of her cheating? I would want to work on the marriage but some female cheaters adulterers just want their own perverted life. in that case i would go for at the very least, joint legal and physical custody with no child support as you would each share the care of your children equally, but i would have details for the demands … x amount of money for school clothes… you each share in the health insurance… children need as stable an environment as possible. have you been faithful or did you cheat too? why did she cheat?… my brother was willing to forgive the lesbian and heterosexual adulteries of his wife, because he loved her and they had a child together. He would still be willing to work on their marriage though he is living in his car, cant live in his home since she lied to the police and got a bogus order of protection… I dont know that I would be willing to forgive her attitude regarding her behavior… she acts like the commitment is just a piece of paper… i kinda hope she doesnt wake up soon.

EverTight
Posted 8 months ago

To answer for myself AND my husband:
once.
No excuse or reason in our house for infidelity. One time and it is over. We take our vows seriously. Doesn’t matter how long married or how many kids. (We have 1 kid and married 11+ years.)

azmac229
Posted 8 months ago

I wouldn’t let her cheat at all. First time and it’s over. Don’t have time to waste with someone who doesn’t want to be with me.

Kevin Davidson Chase via facebook
Posted 8 months ago

Never……..after the first infraction, she and I will be through. If there was a problem in our marriage, this should have discussed and resolved.

Vince Rhett via facebook
Posted 8 months ago

Allow? NEVER!! The minute I find out WITH PROOF, its a done deal!! I couldn’t take her back because she will always have the potential to do it again. I will forgive her and part ways.

Prince Jude via facebook
Posted 8 months ago

Once she’s caught,dat would be it.

Tonya Worthington-Hall via facebook
Posted 8 months ago

But yet women will put up withmen cheating on them! Gather your EGO off the ground!!

Janice Q Brown via facebook
Posted 8 months ago

Actually – studies have shown, men are more forgiving after an affair than women! Hard To believe isn’t it? Women make up 76% of ALL divorce filings!

Brandy Beaty via facebook
Posted 8 months ago

0 lol

Kindu Lewis via facebook
Posted 8 months ago

BEFORE OR AFTER I CUT HER FU(#IN LEGS OFF…

Abel Lewis via facebook
Posted 8 months ago

Once.

Walter Kayira via facebook
Posted 8 months ago

I wouldnt giv her another chance once caught it’s over.

Invictus Trice via facebook
Posted 8 months ago

Once its over. Just ask my lawyer lol.

Nomfundo Precious Mabaso via facebook
Posted 8 months ago

We al deserve a 2nd chance guys even a 3rd 1 lol.

Ajmal Zaki via facebook
Posted 8 months ago

Once cought over,,

Perry Molelekwa via facebook
Posted 8 months ago

well,itz never enough how many times as long as in my heart there’s love…i will keep forgiving her coz it takes love to put up with things…again do you expect GOD to forgive you while you can’t do it to your spouse? Never hurry to breaking a heart because you are hurt. . .

Wyle Outz via facebook
Posted 8 months ago

“LET HER CHEAT” hahaha “Let” iz a kute wurd! #1KissyFan

Prima Donna via facebook
Posted 8 months ago

WOW She Had NO Respect For Him… But, Maybe His Bedroom Skills Were Subpar or He Has A Vienna Sausage.

Prima Donna via facebook
Posted 8 months ago

@Kissy ~ It Would Be Interesting To Know WHY Women CHEAT On Men…

Prima Donna via facebook
Posted 8 months ago

@Perry Molelekwa ~ God Bless You…

Janice Q Brown via facebook
Posted 8 months ago

Lmbofff @ Prima.

Kevin Davidson Chase on Facebook
Posted 8 months ago

Never……..after the first infraction, she and I will be through. If there was a problem in our marriage, this should have discussed and resolved.

Vince Rhett on Facebook
Posted 8 months ago

Allow? NEVER!! The minute I find out WITH PROOF, its a done deal!! I couldn’t take her back because she will always have the potential to do it again. I will forgive her and part ways.

Prince Jude on Facebook
Posted 8 months ago

Once she’s caught,dat would be it.

Tonya Worthington-Hall on Facebook
Posted 8 months ago

But yet women will put up withmen cheating on them! Gather your EGO off the ground!!

Janice Q Brown on Facebook
Posted 8 months ago

Actually – studies have shown, men are more forgiving after an affair than women! Hard To believe isn’t it? Women make up 76% of ALL divorce filings!

Brandy Beaty on Facebook
Posted 8 months ago

0 lol

Kindu Lewis on Facebook
Posted 8 months ago

BEFORE OR AFTER I CUT HER FU(#IN LEGS OFF…

Abel Lewis on Facebook
Posted 8 months ago

Once.

Walter Kayira on Facebook
Posted 8 months ago

I wouldnt giv her another chance once caught it’s over.

Invictus Trice on Facebook
Posted 8 months ago

Once its over. Just ask my lawyer lol.

Russell Sayles on Facebook
Posted 8 months ago

That depends on how much money she makes,if she make the same as me or less pack your shit now, if she makes big money that’s ok baby I forgive you ahead of time for your cheating ass..lol