Room Mates : Why Do People Become Mean Once You Move In With Them?
- Asked By: Ask Kissy Staff
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I recently left my hometown and settled in a new city and state. Currently, I stay with my cousin till I get settled. When I asked to stay with cousin, she was nice and gracious about it. Now, I live in her home and she’s mean and bitchy. I feel so hurt.
Why offer to let me stay and you dont want to be bothered?? I didn’t know she had a bitchy side to her. I’ve done nothing to her and try to stay out of her way. I will get out by next month. I want to cry sometimes.
Oladipo Olamide via facebook
Posted 5 months ago
Short, sweet, to the point, FREE-exactly as information sohlud be!
Shamla Lazyrighteye Sanders via facebook
Posted 5 months ago
That’s because you’re invading their space…and no one likes their space and privacy invaded. No matter how much you care about that person.
darwin moore via facebook
Posted 5 months ago
Because a lot of y’all some nasty ass people. The “oh well” type can’t move in with the organized type, it will be disastrous. It’s more about habits than feelings when people move in together. They not being mean, you left your damn bloody ass tampon in the toilet, I’ll kick a chick out for some $hit like that. Real talk!
Andrew Carl Maki via facebook
Posted 5 months ago
I can’t live with messy people or people who always want a packed house with much traffic and noise. I like a little of the fast paced atmosphere but as I get older I need more and more time to meditate on things and read and I can’t stand all kinds of unpredictable distractions. I’m nice for a few months and then I just start telling motherf*****s to shut the hell up and turn the damn propaganda tube off! HA! Yeah my personality type is in the 5-10% of society category and I’ve done the roommate thing but never again unless I was to clone myself! HA!
Phaz Niemogha via facebook
Posted 5 months ago
That because you really dont know the person, untill you guyz are both stucked in a room…
Yanique Jasmine Searcy via facebook
Posted 5 months ago
They didn’t want they ass there in the first place! And they made cuz they don’t make enought to live alone…speaking of experience..that’s why ill struggle alone before ill struggle with somebody else. So now you have two problems,you broke and annoyed as hell….I’m getting mad all over again!LOL
Randy Lee Pfister Jr via facebook
Posted 5 months ago
A little rationality lifts the quality of the dbeate here. Thanks for contributing!
Phillip Britton via facebook
Posted 5 months ago
Immature ppl should not make adult decisions,period!!
Sherrel Garrett via facebook
Posted 5 months ago
Because you dont no them like u thought u did! Wat a mistake damn.
Lashayla BornReady Downer via facebook
Posted 5 months ago
fuck that family is most definitly the wrong ppl to room with.. espacially if both of youll have kids.. too many attitudes n too much feelings…
Prima Donna via facebook
Posted 5 months ago
I’m A Firm Believer You Cannot Live With Everyone Whether It’s Family or Friends… Expecially When People’s Living Habits Are Not Up To Your Standards Of Living.
John Paul Castillo via facebook
Posted 5 months ago
It’s hard to live with someone who doesn’t share the same rules as you do.
Prima Donna via facebook
Posted 5 months ago
@Andrew Carl Maki ~ This Is The First Time I Can Relate To Your Comment & Agree 100%
Andrew Carl Maki via facebook
Posted 5 months ago
@ Prima if you can relate then you must have a personality type in that low 5% category and might be the rare exception to my no roommate rule. Anyway I’m fully aware at how absurd some of the comments I make look to people but they’re worth looking into. The reason why I say that is that I rarely state opinion unless it’s a topic that requires it. I usually just state facts that come from unreported or buried newspaper clippings, archive information, history that has been omitted from our current history books etc etc. We live in an upside down kingdom and sometimes what we think is common sense is actually learned info from the GEB’s plans to indocrinate the average person (regardless of I.Q.) with false information from birth to death. Anyway read as much info you can that has been labeled “fringe” by the establishment. It will soon be none existent and the Powers that be will be free to shape young minds with completely false or doctored information.
Norman Chee Chee Clarke via facebook
Posted 5 months ago
People never become mean once you move in with them. It’s just that they did a good job of playing a false role prior to you moving in or you were just blinded by something you view as a priority which may be great looks, great sex, convenience because of loneliness and the list goes on.
Keia Nikkei Id-Deen via facebook
Posted 5 months ago
Stellar work there evyernoe. I’ll keep on reading.
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I recently left my hometown and settled in a new city and state. Currently, I stay with my cousin till I get settled. When I asked to stay with cousin, she was nice and gracious about it. Now, I live in her home and she’s mean and bitchy. I feel so hurt.
Why offer to let me stay and you dont want to be bothered?? I didn’t know she had a bitchy side to her. I’ve done nothing to her and try to stay out of her way. I will get out by next month. I want to cry sometimes.
Oladipo Olamide via facebook
Posted 5 months ago
Short, sweet, to the point, FREE-exactly as information sohlud be!
Shamla Lazyrighteye Sanders via facebook
Posted 5 months ago
That’s because you’re invading their space…and no one likes their space and privacy invaded. No matter how much you care about that person.
darwin moore via facebook
Posted 5 months ago
Because a lot of y’all some nasty ass people. The “oh well” type can’t move in with the organized type, it will be disastrous. It’s more about habits than feelings when people move in together. They not being mean, you left your damn bloody ass tampon in the toilet, I’ll kick a chick out for some $hit like that. Real talk!
Andrew Carl Maki via facebook
Posted 5 months ago
I can’t live with messy people or people who always want a packed house with much traffic and noise. I like a little of the fast paced atmosphere but as I get older I need more and more time to meditate on things and read and I can’t stand all kinds of unpredictable distractions. I’m nice for a few months and then I just start telling motherf*****s to shut the hell up and turn the damn propaganda tube off! HA! Yeah my personality type is in the 5-10% of society category and I’ve done the roommate thing but never again unless I was to clone myself! HA!
Phaz Niemogha via facebook
Posted 5 months ago
That because you really dont know the person, untill you guyz are both stucked in a room…
Yanique Jasmine Searcy via facebook
Posted 5 months ago
They didn’t want they ass there in the first place! And they made cuz they don’t make enought to live alone…speaking of experience..that’s why ill struggle alone before ill struggle with somebody else. So now you have two problems,you broke and annoyed as hell….I’m getting mad all over again!LOL
Randy Lee Pfister Jr via facebook
Posted 5 months ago
A little rationality lifts the quality of the dbeate here. Thanks for contributing!
Phillip Britton via facebook
Posted 5 months ago
Immature ppl should not make adult decisions,period!!
Sherrel Garrett via facebook
Posted 5 months ago
Because you dont no them like u thought u did! Wat a mistake damn.
Lashayla BornReady Downer via facebook
Posted 5 months ago
fuck that family is most definitly the wrong ppl to room with.. espacially if both of youll have kids.. too many attitudes n too much feelings…
Prima Donna via facebook
Posted 5 months ago
I’m A Firm Believer You Cannot Live With Everyone Whether It’s Family or Friends… Expecially When People’s Living Habits Are Not Up To Your Standards Of Living.
John Paul Castillo via facebook
Posted 5 months ago
It’s hard to live with someone who doesn’t share the same rules as you do.
Prima Donna via facebook
Posted 5 months ago
@Andrew Carl Maki ~ This Is The First Time I Can Relate To Your Comment & Agree 100%
Andrew Carl Maki via facebook
Posted 5 months ago
@ Prima if you can relate then you must have a personality type in that low 5% category and might be the rare exception to my no roommate rule. Anyway I’m fully aware at how absurd some of the comments I make look to people but they’re worth looking into. The reason why I say that is that I rarely state opinion unless it’s a topic that requires it. I usually just state facts that come from unreported or buried newspaper clippings, archive information, history that has been omitted from our current history books etc etc. We live in an upside down kingdom and sometimes what we think is common sense is actually learned info from the GEB’s plans to indocrinate the average person (regardless of I.Q.) with false information from birth to death. Anyway read as much info you can that has been labeled “fringe” by the establishment. It will soon be none existent and the Powers that be will be free to shape young minds with completely false or doctored information.
Norman Chee Chee Clarke via facebook
Posted 5 months ago
People never become mean once you move in with them. It’s just that they did a good job of playing a false role prior to you moving in or you were just blinded by something you view as a priority which may be great looks, great sex, convenience because of loneliness and the list goes on.
Keia Nikkei Id-Deen via facebook
Posted 5 months ago
Stellar work there evyernoe. I’ll keep on reading.
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Tahreem Qureshi via facebook
Posted 5 months ago
You really don’t know a person til you move in with them. Male OR female. Relative OR friend! Lol